@Delcaniner @Cethic Well, past is past…now, guess the right way by now is looking further to the future. That was the longest text i ever wrote on here and guess you really don‘t need to blame yourself for it.
I would doing it with an older person, but i was too shy, if someone has something seeable negative doing, but it‘s not an really big match (by thinking it deeply), like kill someone with no rights, well than this would be an problem, but by anything else which goes away it isn‘t an real deal.
Therea lot of psychological pre matured kids out there, who wants to know something. There are a lot of ironical senses in the world, which disturbs others, like „if the world wouldn‘t make any sense without an enemy image“… etc.
Delcaniner
As long the consequences doesn't effects you to the future, there is not really an extremely need of fear.
I was in my youth (childhood) too in some kind of adult stuff(not really into arts, but mostly xxx websides) Got found by my self Shadmans(Shadling, Shadbase etc., who knows) stuff(not really that hard).
Guess those little angers of you ( by saying terrible things ) are some kind of frustration (negative depression probably).
I got in my years (age of 10) 5. class (elementary school) some anger issues too, because of my past (bully...etc.), which leads me to say "I kill you all - I KILL YOU ALL!!!" (when i'm feel insulted or offened) it's not every day the teacher(female not the youngest) gets attentive.
Weeks later and in those weeks by days when something falls to my mind negative(offened) i say that. Guess my outstanding way by ignoring the other kids(not really cooperative) attents my teacher too. She didn't use some violents on me. Just talk to that she said that she fears that i would do something bad or worse in the future, i answer her that this wouldn't happen. That anger still goes days later. My mom was called and she should get me to some adolescent psychiatry by an doctor. The meeting to that doctor was on an after school-day, when my mother had time to it.
The result say's i'm totally normal. Guess it's somekind of deep psychiologistic issues of me.
When i say those words ("I kill you all") i know that this isn't true, just haven't not enough controll to not say that.
Time to time my anger falls and everything went normal.
By during Highschool was something simmilar to that, but by saying those words ("I kill you)
and it was surprisingly easier to handle that. Because i got more knowledges.
(To be honest i got an fear of death since my earliest childhood, lonelyness either, since when i was 10 i started to masturbate ( in my deepest mind probably randomly once or second or even third time when i was even younger). I read since last year that pre sexuality is genetical and not 100% psychic. I had many doubts in my childhood. Even some girls find me cute or attractive i rejected to them even i find them good or okay...
This is simmilar to the highschool too.
I liked to play of legal age games like (Resident evil, Prototype, Dead Space etc.) mostly horror games or movies.
Which hardens me up, i was shy during my childhood.
I remember when i was 8 or 9, that i said in my mind i need to harden up to go though the problems, the softness inside me was nearly naive so...yeah...
I was self centered too and mean in some kind, but i felt this isn't right.
By all those negative thinkings and feelings i throw many things away which i regret tuntil today.
Aaaand ... yeah... i was into "Zoophile" too, but to be honest i never ever had sexual experiences whith someone or something.
I was deep meaningly thinking in my youth, but throw that away (because i thought that's enough and time to get something easier, but that was naive in some kind) and got it back.
Scince 2017 again, but with many negative thoughts(hate, depression etc.)..., but now positive and rightful.
Cethic
It’s very easy to get twisted up online when you’re young, especially back then. Parents were not as aware of the dangers that lurked online, and many of us were left twisted as a result. All we can do is try to untwist ourselves and move on from that muck, lest we steep and remain submerged.
I’m glad you found your way out of that hell hole.